Before your tantric massage
You may be looking forward to your appointment and feeling a little nervous too. That is especially understandable if this is your first tantric massage. We'll take time to talk and get comfortable before beginning.
There's nothing you need to achieve and no particular way you need to feel.
Before you arrive
If possible, leave some space around your appointment so you don't have to rush in or straight back to your day.
If you have questions, feel apprehensive or aren't sure which massage to choose, you're welcome to message me beforehand.
Please also tell me about physical concerns, sensitivities or circumstances relevant to the massage. You only need to share what is necessary for us to work with care.
Bring your curiosity
Approach the session as a chance to discover, feel and enjoy. You don't need to perform, relax on command or respond in any particular way. Stay curious about your own experience and what feels right for you.
We'll begin with a conversation
What brings you here? What interests you? What kinds of touch would you like, and what would you prefer to leave out?
Perhaps you want rest, a closer connection with your body or the experience of simply receiving. You don't need a special intention. I'll explain the massage and we'll discuss whether it matches your wishes.
You can change your mind
Consent at the beginning is not a commitment to continue. You can ask for different touch, a pause or an end to the session at any point, without explanation.
Small requests are welcome: softer, firmer, slower or somewhere else. If speaking up feels difficult, please tell me beforehand. I'll also check in during the massage.
Intimate touch is discussed in advance
Some massages can include yoni or lingam touch, but only where appropriate to the session and clearly agreed with you. You can also receive a massage without intimate touch.
The attention is for you. You don't need to offer anything in return.
Every response is welcome
You may feel relaxed, warm, moved or full of thoughts. You may experience pleasure or less sensation than expected. None of these responses means you're doing it wrong.
There's no need to release anything or have an extraordinary experience. We'll stay with what is comfortable and appropriate for you.
Afterwards
You'll have water and time to rest. You're welcome to share your experience, or simply be quiet.
You might like a walk or some time alone afterwards. Leave room for that if you can. If questions arise later, you're welcome to contact me.
Is there anything you'd like to discuss before your visit? Get in touch.